part 2.. (platonic relationship)
Hindi dahil you hang out with each other most of
the time, you’d end up being boyfriend-
girlfriend. Self-explanatory… There are a
thousand, no million different reasons why things
don’t always turn out that way. There is no one
proven formula. For all we know, the reason why
he likes hanging out with you is because he likes
getting kikay tips from you. He probably plans on
being kikay himself and he needs a mentor.
A dinner with a guy friend does not necessarily
mean equate to a date. Especially if you’re
paying for your share no. Hello? Three things to
consider: the place, the topic and how the two of
you actually planned to meet. First, how it was
planned. If it were a date expect that he would
ask you out at least three days before the actual
date to give you some lead time, to give you the
notion that you are not just a filler on his
schedule. Second, the place. If it were a real
date, the both of you would want real food and a
place where you could really talk things through.
Don’t go out with a guy to a movie on Friday
night if you’re really serious about him. Going
to a movie is more like treating him like
a "filler" just because you had nothing to do on
a Friday night so you might as well go out.
Topic. Ha! You wouldn’t be talking about chikang
artista, chikang opisina or argue if the one
girl’s bo obs are real or not. You would be
probably talking about sensible, quite personal
stuff.
I therefore conclude that platonic relationships
are never complicated; people just have
tendencies to complicate them.
